Sharing a trophy?

   In theory the first call on a trophy is not the helm, not the crew, its the boat owner! 
Don't tell the parents.

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Strangler Send Private Message Find Member's Posts Posting king Joined: 24 Mar 06 Location: United Kingdom Online Status: Offline Posts: 154	Post Options Post Reply Quote Strangler Report Post Quote Reply Topic: Sharing a trophy? Posted: 15 Jul 11 at 5:00pm
	In theory the first call on a trophy is not the helm, not the crew, its the boat owner! Don't tell the parents.

Guests Send Private Message Find Member's Posts Guest Group	Post Options Post Reply Quote Guests Quote Reply Posted: 02 Jul 11 at 11:22am
	Good communication between crews is essential, on and off the water.

Hikerrock Send Private Message Find Member's Posts Newbie Joined: 01 Jul 11 Location: United kingdom Online Status: Offline Posts: 2	Post Options Post Reply Quote Hikerrock Report Post Quote Reply Posted: 01 Jul 11 at 11:42pm
	Thank you for answering, it seems sharing is very reasonable. Good. Before asking you I just didnt know if I was thinking unreasonable things and breaking some etiquette or unwritten rules. I'll wait for the 6mths to pass and then see what helm does. Helm is a nice person and much more sailing experience so she will hopefully offer a share without me saying anything. If not I’ll see how I still feel and I know I can carefully ask her without being worried. Later this year I’ll try really hard to remember to let you know what happens! Thank you again to everyone who replied, a nice friendly forum.

Late starter Send Private Message Find Member's Posts Far too distracted from work Joined: 24 Feb 07 Online Status: Offline Posts: 481	Post Options Post Reply Quote Late starter Report Post Quote Reply Posted: 01 Jul 11 at 11:25pm
	Sharring is definitely appropriate, your helm may have forgotten so a gentle reminder may be in order.

Guests Send Private Message Find Member's Posts Guest Group	Post Options Post Reply Quote Guests Quote Reply Posted: 01 Jul 11 at 4:52pm
	I'm in the fortunate position of living with my crew, so She polishes them for 6 months and then it's my turn. If she values you as crew (which I'm sure she does) then she will gladly respond to a friendly request to "share" the trophy.

Rupert Send Private Message Find Member's Posts Really should get out more Joined: 11 Aug 04 Location: Whitefriars sc Online Status: Offline Posts: 8956	Post Options Post Reply Quote Rupert Report Post Quote Reply Posted: 01 Jul 11 at 1:33pm
	It is usually the responsibility of the boat owner to get the trophy back to the club for the next year, so I can see why it would gather dust at their house. Ask - she may not realize you have any interest in it. I tend (depending on age) to try to make sure my crew gets a more than fair share of the drinkable/edible bounty.
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rogerd Send Private Message Find Member's Posts Really should get out more Joined: 25 May 04 Online Status: Offline Posts: 1076	Post Options Post Reply Quote rogerd Report Post Quote Reply Posted: 01 Jul 11 at 8:26am
	On the rare occasion that WE have won a trophy we have done about 6 months each.

Pierre Send Private Message Find Member's Posts Visit Member's Homepage Really should get out more Joined: 15 Mar 04 Location: United Kingdom Online Status: Offline Posts: 1532	Post Options Post Reply Quote Pierre Report Post Quote Reply Posted: 01 Jul 11 at 8:17am
	Yes she should at least give you a share of it. As you say, it was a team effort. Good crew are like gold dust..... There is an informal organisation called the "Crew's Union". I am sure some of them will see this and give you the benefit of their experience. :-)

JimC Send Private Message Find Member's Posts Visit Member's Homepage Really should get out more Joined: 17 May 04 Location: United Kingdom Online Status: Offline Posts: 6660	Post Options Post Reply Quote JimC Report Post Quote Reply Posted: 01 Jul 11 at 7:55am
	It depends on how ugly the trophy is and how much room it takes up in the house...

GybeFunny Send Private Message Find Member's Posts Far too distracted from work Joined: 27 Oct 09 Online Status: Offline Posts: 403	Post Options Post Reply Quote GybeFunny Report Post Quote Reply Posted: 01 Jul 11 at 7:28am
	I have always done 6 months each.