Dear Dave

Don't forget to get a paddle for the N12. Keep it at the back and if he starts to argue give him a gentle prod with it.  Oh and remember that as the helm it is your duty to delegate. When you finish the weds. races, win the race to the showers while there is still plenty of hot water.  Now you have a crew you need never pack the boat away again.

As I explain to my apprentice from time to time, some things can't be taught or bought.  You've either got it or you aint.

Maturity, wisdom and some good humour, you are an excellent judge of character.

I had similar problems when I owned a Finn, ( before the thieving Ba$%£"& tax man investigated me for no good reason and I had to sell it to pay the fines and back payments all of which were totally fabricated by a complete $£%$%""!$ who really enjoyed his job and just needed a good slap with a Finn center plate).

They are in awe of you and your craft.  Just enjoy it.  If it really does become too much, then ask them if they would like you to take them for a spin.  If they are strong enough to drag the beast along the slipway they will be able to handle the sheet loads.  The type of loads that are generated from when boats were built for real men. Many will bottle it immediately and never bother you again, incase the offer is repeated, but those who are brave enough to try, will be hooked and join the class.

(ps if you are ever short of a crew then let me know).