new beginer

 thanks ur repliying guys yeah I might be sailing virgen as Conntender calls me like but I aint got no furtune from my family or had no luck from any sort of lottery I did my saves all my life and worked hard 4 that at the same time have been  rised my kids 2 go out the sea ppl needs not only money but experiance as well I only succed 1 of them but money sometimes does not enough what ý did learned is sea ppl r use 2 support each other dont metter which nationalitys they belong 2 or at the sea or land

am here just cos of learn more and share experiances with ppl who knows things more than ý do I consider everything what u guys trying 2 tell me 1 by 1

thank you

As you are based in Turkey, there are plenty of very good holiday companies who you would be able to book a weeks sailing with to give you an idea of what it is all about. On the other hand, the suggestion of a 2nd hand cup yacht with Chris Dickson as skipper to give you a few lessons is an approach that almost worked for the Oracle boss, and that boat and skipper combo has just come on the market...

There should be a number of almost new yachts up for sale in the Valencia area in the not to distant future.  They'll be fun to sail.  Just like big dinghies really.

 thanks guys 4 ur suggestions but ý do not wanna be disapointed and loose all my interes if ý make a wrong choice and go 2 wrong sail school u know much better than me there r so many useless schools they simpley thinks ur money rather than teach somethin

I have another idea if ý buy my boat 1st than I can find a captain with experiance and I can learn from him what u think ? and how long this can take 2 me 2 learn so ý can go all by my self

thank you

Agree with rupert, not into big boats but the Lesson and crew option is the best bet before spending all your hard earned cash on somthing unsuitable.