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Topic: Sailing is for posh people
Posted By: winging it
Subject: Sailing is for posh people
Date Posted: 15 Nov 13 at 11:37am
Discuss:

http://deadspin.com/the-preppiest-sports-ranked-1455273532" rel="nofollow - http://deadspin.com/the-preppiest-sports-ranked-1455273532

Apparently 'crew' is that weird thing where they use bits of wood flattened at the end to push themselves around instead of sails.  Never understood it myself.


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Posted By: iGRF
Date Posted: 15 Nov 13 at 11:41am
Says she with the double barrelled handle..

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Posted By: yellowwelly
Date Posted: 15 Nov 13 at 11:53am
odd... that perception coming out after the biggest regatta in our sport concludes and the champion billionaire (who wasn't even onboard, never mind steering) gets seen as a legend... and the new custodian of some prime Bay real estate.

oh well, at least 470 guys got the internal recognition they deserve earlier this week.  And thanks to Ocean Leisure's window display, the Embankment now has two 'Big Bens' for Lunndeners to look at.



   


Posted By: winging it
Date Posted: 15 Nov 13 at 12:31pm
Weedon = the village in Northampton where my dad was found just before they stuck him in the Barnado's home, so they used that as his surname.  He was probably the child of an itinerant Irish worker.

Jones - my husband's last name.  I didn't want to be Mrs Jones.  I should drop it now really but can't be bothered with the faff.


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Posted By: iGRF
Date Posted: 15 Nov 13 at 12:36pm
Maybe it was sailing that made you aspirational, my own example of refusing to join my surname with that of my spouse Miss Crap, was a shining example of self denial I thought..

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Posted By: Rupert
Date Posted: 15 Nov 13 at 12:42pm
Given some of the village names in Britain, I'd say you were lucky!


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Posted By: Rupert
Date Posted: 15 Nov 13 at 12:45pm
Of course, the sport of this particular forum, dinghy sailing, isn't on the list. We must be a right bunch of oiks, not to come in ahead of bowls.

Mind, this is a Yankee website, and we know they have a strange view of class over there.


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Posted By: Andymac
Date Posted: 15 Nov 13 at 1:02pm
Originally posted by Rupert

Given some of the village names in Britain, I'd say you were lucky!


Funny how my mind works, I was just compelled to Google whether there was a place called Poodon.


Posted By: yellowwelly
Date Posted: 15 Nov 13 at 1:16pm
Are we back to the RS Cat again?


Posted By: yellowwelly
Date Posted: 15 Nov 13 at 1:55pm
On the squawk today was someone talking rather eruditely about social mobility, or to be more precise, the decline of it in our society.  It made me think of this thread, and yes, it comes as no surprise that a traditionally gentrified sport (or should that be, 'pursuit' given most of us don't even race properly anymore) has moved back to a middle-class stereotype.


Posted By: iitick
Date Posted: 15 Nov 13 at 2:21pm
Yes Mr Welly, there has been much discussion on the radio today about the decline in social mobility. I was born in the gutter, have shuffled along it all my life and will die in the gutter. I thank you all for allowing a humble son of toil into your esteemed ranks.


Posted By: yellowwelly
Date Posted: 15 Nov 13 at 2:28pm
LOL  let's be fair, sailing inland, at some weird man made puddle that either cleans piss water, or provides drinking water (no one is quite sure which- it's probably both)  is always going to be a minority interest for the local demographic.... 

as for coastal areas, I've seen quite a bit of investment into getting people to use the water for recreational purposes.  But if you were dolling out cash, would you make it available to the sport where the cost of basic entry (new) is about £4.5k for a Laser, or would you make it available to Canoeing where you can get into it for the price of a pair of Nike Air Max trainers and continue through the winter at the local swimming pool.... 


Posted By: iGRF
Date Posted: 15 Nov 13 at 3:22pm
Well judging by the sheer volume of braying yah yahs and hollering hoorays that used to tear around the dinghy show, we all thought y'all were posh. Posh is an acronym of Port Out Starboard Home as some of you are probably aware so by it's very nature a nautical term.

And even if you don't have a name like Jones, Vanessa? sorry Vanessa is posh. But the deciding factor can only be judged by accent, just a hint of RP and you're done I'm afraid, then we should also talk about Rupert, who calls their child Rupert other than the upper middle classes, my Rupert he sails a lot...


Then, don't even talk about that arch double barrelled chinless wonder - James Y Wellington Brace ...


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Posted By: yellowwelly
Date Posted: 15 Nov 13 at 3:31pm
said Graeme Reginald Fuller - the Third

you even went to posh local school.... a Grammar wasn't it.  Although to be fair, growing up in Kent you're lucky your mum could afford to have extra fingers surgically removed, most of the kids round there had to get the butcher to do it...

A local at Hythe comparing boom blisters....



Posted By: Rupert
Date Posted: 15 Nov 13 at 3:35pm
Posh? Good Sarf Lunnen boy, me.

Couldn't wait to get out, though, so delusions of grandeur, at least!


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Posted By: transient
Date Posted: 15 Nov 13 at 3:43pm
Any council estate oiks on here?


Posted By: iGRF
Date Posted: 15 Nov 13 at 3:59pm
It's Ross ectually and I was born in Oxford..

And we don't talk to council chavs...

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Posted By: yellowwelly
Date Posted: 15 Nov 13 at 4:04pm
Originally posted by iGRF

And we don't talk to council chavs...



Posted By: alstorer
Date Posted: 15 Nov 13 at 4:06pm
sport that, despite some people that will protest otherwise, is pretty expensive to take part in a "attracting well off people" generally shocker.

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Posted By: winging it
Date Posted: 15 Nov 13 at 4:15pm
http://www.gotoquiz.com/how_posh_are_you" rel="nofollow - http://www.gotoquiz.com/how_posh_are_you

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Posted By: Dougal
Date Posted: 15 Nov 13 at 4:20pm
Originally posted by winging it

http://www.gotoquiz.com/how_posh_are_you" rel="nofollow - http://www.gotoquiz.com/how_posh_are_you

I've just done the quiz and it has told me I am not gay.  That will be a relief for the wife.





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Posted By: winging it
Date Posted: 15 Nov 13 at 4:25pm
I did it and told it I was gay.  That was also a relief for the wife.

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Posted By: yellowwelly
Date Posted: 15 Nov 13 at 4:27pm
There's a village near us called Gaydon.  I don't know if any babies were abandoned there last century.


Posted By: iitick
Date Posted: 15 Nov 13 at 4:44pm
What none of you know is that I am black!



Posted By: yellowwelly
Date Posted: 15 Nov 13 at 4:47pm
Originally posted by iitick

What none of you know is that I am black!


hard day down the pit?


Posted By: iitick
Date Posted: 15 Nov 13 at 4:50pm
and that........we talk of nothing but FF's and 49ers whilst hewing coal.


Posted By: gordon
Date Posted: 15 Nov 13 at 5:03pm
Sailing is not a posh sport - owning a yacht is very posh.

The more we separate sailing from boat owning the more popular our sport will become.




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Posted By: 2547
Date Posted: 15 Nov 13 at 5:08pm
Yachting is not dinghy sailing ...

Yachting is for posh people  ....


Posted By: yellowwelly
Date Posted: 15 Nov 13 at 5:11pm
I know people who own yachts bought on bank loans that have a lower monthly payment than a Ford Fiesta payment plan.

They do a lot work themselves, use swinging moorings, the insurance is cheap and generally the annual running cost is less than a Premiership Season ticket.  And certainly less than curry, fags and booze every weekend.

Yacht racing is probably the cheapest form of sailboat racing to get involved with.... some boats pick crew up from the dock.  These guys don't even have to YC members and on some boats, oilskins are loaned and all good skippers keep lifejackets.  Compare that to crewing a dinghy at a club- cost of kit, cost of membership, cost of fuel to get to some pond in the back and beyond....  

So actually Yacht Racing isn't posh.... but like a welfare system, you do need a few 'rich c*nts' to pay for it for everyone else.


Posted By: Steve411
Date Posted: 15 Nov 13 at 5:12pm

You are only half posh, you earn the normal amount and you spend on your family, to you gay means liking the same sex, you are quite up with it and you are not gay!



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Posted By: Rupert
Date Posted: 15 Nov 13 at 5:30pm
Originally posted by winging it

http://www.gotoquiz.com/how_posh_are_you" rel="nofollow - http://www.gotoquiz.com/how_posh_are_you


I'll get the butler to do the test for me.


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Posted By: Noah
Date Posted: 15 Nov 13 at 5:35pm
Originally posted by Steve411

You are only half posh, you earn the normal amount and you spend on your family, to you gay means liking the same sex, you are quite up with it and you are not gay!



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Posted By: Noah
Date Posted: 15 Nov 13 at 5:36pm
Originally posted by Rupert

Originally posted by winging it

http://www.gotoquiz.com/how_posh_are_you" rel="nofollow - http://www.gotoquiz.com/how_posh_are_you


I'll get the butler to do the test for me.


LOL LOL LOL Clap Clap Clap Well said that man!


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Posted By: craiggo
Date Posted: 15 Nov 13 at 5:39pm
If your view of yachting is buying one of those big white bits of plastic at the Southampton boat show, then you probably are a bit posh, however rubber boot is right, yacht ownership can be pretty cheap. I told a load of club members a month or so ago, how much a new RS200 was along with various other popular dinghies and they all said "Bloody hell, you could buy a fleet of cruisers for that!" When you consider that boats like Achilles 24s, GK24s, Sonatas etc change hands for less than £5k you can see how they draw that conclusion.

The truth is though why would you want to race a boat you can sleep or brew up on, its like taking a VW camper van around the Nurburgring!


Posted By: gordon
Date Posted: 15 Nov 13 at 6:07pm
Proper cruiser racing - in which the navigator is the most important member of the crew, in which timing passages through channles onl accessible at high tide, the strategic use of the anchor and careful management of the crew (resting, sleeping and eating) is a fascinating sport.

Unfortunately there are not many races like that...



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Posted By: Cameron Winton
Date Posted: 15 Nov 13 at 8:00pm
Dinghy sailing is not posh. The 5k sonata is equivalent to the £900 laser. We have single mums (and their kids) sailing at our club, garage mechanics, etc. Members go out of their way to get those without a boat a place crewing, find cheap boats etc.
I worked out that my seasons sailing cost at least half of a seasons golf played by friends (have you seen the membership fees!!!)although equipment costs for 5 a side footie are £25 for a pair of astroturf shoes every 2nd year in the January sales.


Posted By: didlydon
Date Posted: 15 Nov 13 at 8:29pm
I'm working class. I also sail. Came late to it as even growing up living in a seaside town my family could never afford a boat or join a club. I used to spend hours down the harbour watching the boats & wishing I could do that....It's only been in recent years that I realised the long held dreams of building my own boat & sailing it with like minded folk. My club actively encourages participation by local kids & families where we try & bust the idea that sailing is elitist. I reckon we're doing a damn good job too....

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Posted By: yellowwelly
Date Posted: 15 Nov 13 at 9:32pm
Originally posted by craiggo

If your view of yachting is buying one of those big white bits of plastic at the Southampton boat show, then you probably are a bit posh, however rubber boot is right, yacht ownership can be pretty cheap. I told a load of club members a month or so ago, how much a new RS200 was along with various other popular dinghies and they all said "Bloody hell, you could buy a fleet of cruisers for that!" When you consider that boats like Achilles 24s, GK24s, Sonatas etc change hands for less than £5k you can see how they draw that conclusion.

The truth is though why would you want to race a boat you can sleep or brew up on, its like taking a VW camper van around the Nurburgring!


Generally I would agree with you- however Sonatas are great fun to race.


Posted By: Chris 249
Date Posted: 17 Nov 13 at 8:41am
I'm with Gordon; racing yachts offshore is fascinating, complex and challenging. Peeling headsails at 3 am in a bouncy seaway is an adrenalin rush boosted by the knowledge that unlike dinghy sailing, it really is a dangerous activity. And the beauty of offshore sailing is something that words cannot convey. 

I also find there's something wonderfully surreal about the contrast of buckets of spray hurling themselves across the deck in the night, and varnish shining down below in the warm and comfy cabin.

Re class; anyone who reckons dinghy sailing is just for the upper classes hasn't visited Belmont 16 Footer Skiff Club down here!


Posted By: NickA
Date Posted: 17 Nov 13 at 3:55pm
I do notice that the kids who roll up for topper training weekends at our club (and thereby have a chance at Zone and National squads and will one day turn up at the Olympics) generally have mum and dad driving a Massive Camper Van or Audi Q7 or RangeRovaar and that all their kit is nice and new.

Also noticed that by the time I was rich enough to own a nice dinghy I was too old to sail it well.



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Posted By: rogerd
Date Posted: 17 Nov 13 at 6:53pm
Originally posted by NickA

I do notice that the kids who roll up for topper training weekends at our club (and thereby have a chance at Zone and National squads and will one day turn up at the Olympics) generally have mum and dad driving a Massive Camper Van or Audi Q7 or RangeRovaar and that all their kit is nice and new.
Also noticed that by the time I was rich enough to own a nice dinghy I was too old to sail it well.

My brother has a son in toppers(now lasers) and daughter in 420. Yes he is on a good salary and works bloody hard for it and yes he has a motor home BUT no expensive holidays etc and it certainly doesn't make him posh.
I still havent got rich enough to buy me a decent boat and certainly not good enough to sail it.
If you want posh try the horsey fraternity


Posted By: JimC
Date Posted: 17 Nov 13 at 7:40pm
Its amazing what you can afford to do if you cut out takeaway meals, booze, fags and foreign holidays... I got a new Cherub when I was on a very modest income back in the 80s.


Posted By: Daniel Holman
Date Posted: 17 Nov 13 at 7:55pm
Originally posted by JimC

Its amazing what you can afford to do if you cut out takeaway meals, booze, fags and foreign holidays... I got a new Cherub when I was on a very modest income back in the 80s.


Couldn't agree more Jim
Most people these days don't appreciate how much of their expenditure is basically on luxuries.


Posted By: Rupert
Date Posted: 17 Nov 13 at 8:12pm
The young of today, they don't know how good they've got it - not like in my day, when we thought we were lucky if we got a banana once a week, and going to the cinema was a treat for every other birthday, and we could only afford one piece of coal for the fire each night.

Beginning to sound like the Daily Mail on this thread.


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Posted By: Jeepers
Date Posted: 17 Nov 13 at 10:44pm
...you were lucky...our dad used to send us to tropics in t' Mirror dinghy to pick bananas out t' trees and then we'd have to be back by 6 in t' mornin' to start work at mill.

But you know, we were happy in those days, though we were poor.


Posted By: JimC
Date Posted: 17 Nov 13 at 11:08pm
The point I was trying to make was that just because a family turn up with a 4*4 and all the gear it need not mean that they have the disposable income of a BBC executive, it could equally be that they have cut down drastically on other expenditure to make it possible to do the circuit in a degree of comfort.


Posted By: iitick
Date Posted: 17 Nov 13 at 11:24pm
AND WHAT'S WRONG WITH THE DAILY MAIL MAY I ASK?


Posted By: alstorer
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 6:42am
Originally posted by iitick

AND WHAT'S WRONG WITH THE DAILY MAIL MAY I ASK?
Everything...


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Posted By: getafix
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 7:27am
Yacht Racing is for rich people.

Dinghy Racing has got far too expensive, but still a long way below Yacht Racing, IMO.

Polo is for posh people. 

Gymkhana's and Pony Club are for posh people and people who want to mix with posh people, but aren't posh themselves. 

Compared to massive stink boat ownership it's all still small beer.

The Daily Mail is just wrong, plain wrong.  Unless you happen to be white, middle or upper class and like a right-wing comic instead of a newspaper of a morning, IMO.


Posted By: Rupert
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 8:26am
Originally posted by JimC

The point I was trying to make was that just because a family turn up with a 4*4 and all the gear it need not mean that they have the disposable income of a BBC executive, it could equally be that they have cut down drastically on other expenditure to make it possible to do the circuit in a degree of comfort.


I think there is a problem here, too, that people are equating posh with well off. There are plenty of people who wouldn't have a clue which fork to use who have a disposible income magnitudes larger than someone who comes from a long line of land owners and lives in a country pile.

Sailing probably never crosses the minds of many people who could afford to do it - it just isn't in their world, whereas nice cars and a skiing holiday are.


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Posted By: iitick
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 8:29am
My Daily Mail comment was very tongue in cheek.

As far as I can see at our club adult membership is quite varied. We have Solicitors, teachers and plumbers. The one thing that we all are is 'respectable' and socially responsible. We all get along very well and the atmosphere is very pleasant. We are almost child free at the moment with a distinct lack of junior members but when they do appear and join they are usually propelled by wealthy ambitious parents. When I used to take the 'boy' to junior races I was the only parent with an old car and a trailer welded up from scrap. When we were at the Ovington Inlands last year there were 60? 29 ers all sailed by youth and accompanied by motor home parents.

I believe that the posh part of dinghy sailing is the youth part of dinghy sailing, the remainder is just respectable. 

Ah well, another couple of hours in bed, last nights kebab for breakfast, down to the bookie, pub for lunch and sleep it off in the dinghy park.....bliss.


Posted By: shadeux
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 10:04am
"its like taking a VW camper van around the Nurburgring! "

And why not? As long as you are up against other campers, of course. A bunch of sonatas racing each other is no more daft(or not) than sitting in a piece of varnished wood and racing similar craft.

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Posted By: rogerd
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 10:59am
Originally posted by iitick

My Daily Mail comment was very tongue in cheek.
As far as I can see at our club adult membership is quite varied. We have Solicitors, teachers and plumbers. The one thing that we all are is 'respectable' and socially responsible. We all get along very well and the atmosphere is very pleasant. We are almost child free at the moment with a distinct lack of junior members but when they do appear and join they are usually propelled by wealthy ambitious parents. When I used to take the 'boy' to junior races I was the only parent with an old car and a trailer welded up from scrap. When we were at the Ovington Inlands last year there were 60? 29 ers all sailed by youth and accompanied by motor home parents.
I believe that the posh part of dinghy sailing is the youth part of dinghy sailing, the remainder is just respectable. 
Ah well, another couple of hours in bed, last nights kebab for breakfast, down to the bookie, pub for lunch and sleep it off in the dinghy park.....bliss.


Sorry cant see the link between posh and motorhomes. Its a practical way of keeping costs down. If you are going to support your children doing the circuit nearly every weekend and during the winter the B&B costs would be horrendous and there is somewhere to put your smelly wetsuits.
Its a financial choice that's all and at the end of the few years you will be driving said bus you have an asset to sell on.


Posted By: iitick
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 11:21am
I do not wish to offend motor home owners...but, they do imply a certain degree of affluence. I would have loved a motorhome but it would have been extra to 2 family cars. Not to mention the cost of purchasing the machine.

What do we mean by the word 'posh'? Do we mean affluent? Do we (in a round about way) mean motivated?

In do not see some guy stacking shelves in B & Q buying his child a newish Laser and a motorhome to follow his offspring through the squad system?

Youth sailing, on the whole, is a middle class, posh, pursuit. When we grow up it is respectable but less posh.




Posted By: yellowwelly
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 11:25am
Originally posted by rogerd

Originally posted by iitick

My Daily Mail comment was very tongue in cheek.
As far as I can see at our club adult membership is quite varied. We have Solicitors, teachers and plumbers. The one thing that we all are is 'respectable' and socially responsible. We all get along very well and the atmosphere is very pleasant. We are almost child free at the moment with a distinct lack of junior members but when they do appear and join they are usually propelled by wealthy ambitious parents. When I used to take the 'boy' to junior races I was the only parent with an old car and a trailer welded up from scrap. When we were at the Ovington Inlands last year there were 60? 29 ers all sailed by youth and accompanied by motor home parents.
I believe that the posh part of dinghy sailing is the youth part of dinghy sailing, the remainder is just respectable. 
Ah well, another couple of hours in bed, last nights kebab for breakfast, down to the bookie, pub for lunch and sleep it off in the dinghy park.....bliss.


Sorry cant see the link between posh and motorhomes. Its a practical way of keeping costs down. If you are going to support your children doing the circuit nearly every weekend and during the winter the B&B costs would be horrendous and there is somewhere to put your smelly wetsuits.
Its a financial choice that's all and at the end of the few years you will be driving said bus you have an asset to sell on.

+1

and another reason to have one is that you can tow behind it.  When I was a kid on the Oppy circuit, once more than one boat was needing to be transported, you'd often see a family split into two cars- one pulling boats, one pulling a caravan.  We did ourselves for a while, and then realised the motorhome solution would be better.

My parents sold their motorhome for a little more than they paid for it.  Similarly any keelboat they've had has always paid itself back upon sale... the total cost of ownership (depreciation + running cost) was far less than a family saloon car from a not-particularly-special marque on a typical main dealer finance plan.  I've certainly lost more on a dinghy than they've ever lost on a family cruiser.

I love how making choices on your disposable income makes you 'posh'- another example of consumerist society that's ultimately f**ked by the need to judge oneself by how one is perceived by other people.    


Posted By: yellowwelly
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 11:31am
Originally posted by iitick

I do not wish to offend motor home owners...but, they do imply a certain degree of affluence. 



Not really- one of the tricks we learned early on was to join the Caravan Club- you could get overnight stays in farm locations with basic amenities for less than a Pie and a Pint in a Weatherspoons.  

We also used ours for family holidays in France, often other people you meet who do it for the pleasure of it are not really 'that posh'... just regular folks who don't happen to waste money in hotels and or on package holidays.  

There was also quite a few in the retired category... I guess they could have spent the money on a Once in a Lifetime World Cruise or something equally unimaginative.  Instead they've chosen to go explore and pick up local produce in a farmers market whenever it suits them, on their own terms; rather than eat seabass at the Captain's Table in a tuxedo, once per week, on the way to some dump of a port town somewhere 'exotic'.    

  


Posted By: iitick
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 11:40am
Hang on! You just made my point. You and your parents had the degree of affluence which enabled you to make a choice that was convenient to you. Are you implying that Mr B & Q could finance his child's sailing in that way if he gave up beer and fags?

So many of the affluent middle classes have no idea of the financial gulf that exists between themselves and 'ordinary' workers.

I am sure that Mr B & Q could follow the circuit but with a tent and 02 Astra, lots of adult sailors do but please do not tell me that the Motorhome coralle at Graffham was not somewhere in the region of 'posh'.


Posted By: iitick
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 11:48am
Re your last post, your doing it again! You had the power to choose! Now I am retired and my 4 children are grown, to the point where they can be exploited. This year i have toured Europe by train and had a fab week in Tuscany exploiting the children. Venice in January with wife. I have time to look and time to decide. I could never have done these things when our children were dependent.


Posted By: 2547
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 11:51am
My dad took me around the circuit is a rusty old Volvo 244 ... we camped and had a great time.

For championships we sometimes used to rent a flat/house if it turned into the yearly family holiday; much to the disgust of my sister.

Youth sailing these days seems to be run on a very different budget ... 

Posh does not equate to wealthy IMO ... posh is going back to perhaps traditional class system references and harks back to "old money" ...



Posted By: ajbaldwin
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 11:55am
Sailing compared to most other popular sports is cheap, as I keep telling my friends at the masons lodge (only joking)

I play 5 aside twice a week at goals which is £6.50 a game or £650 a year!!

My friends golf membership is a £1000

Another mate pays £550 a year to watch Sheffield Wednesday who play the worst football in all the divisions.




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Posted By: yellowwelly
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 11:56am
Originally posted by iitick

Hang on! You just made my point. You and your parents had the degree of affluence which enabled you to make a choice that was convenient to you. Are you implying that Mr B & Q could finance his child's sailing in that way if he gave up beer and fags?

So many of the affluent middle classes have no idea of the financial gulf that exists between themselves and 'ordinary' workers.

I am sure that Mr B & Q could follow the circuit but with a tent and 02 Astra, lots of adult sailors do but please do not tell me that the Motorhome coralle at Graffham was not somewhere in the region of 'posh'.

Yes, he probably could, if the desire was there- and some smaller motorhomes are more economical and not that impractical to run as a family car.  I know plenty of windsurfers who run converted T-5s as cars as well as sports wagons.... they'd laugh if you called them posh, but they do tend to work for themselves in one form or another, and I can only assume that means they are sufficiently efficient at whatever it is they do to make ends meet.  

So B&Q bod, he or she could also take on more shifts, or get promoted, or aspire through searching for other jobs.  He or she could take on two jobs ... or do all the other things that people with aspirations to earn more do, which may include moving away to accept work which pay overseas, or living away from home M-F, retraining and re-skilling into a future resilient work area; or taking some bloody ugly risks by being truly responsible for their own income and setting up their own businesses.

None of that is as easy as rolling into the same stable, safe boring job for 40 years admittedly- with all its comforts, protections, unions, minimum wages and sick pay.  And you'd have to ask why anyone in retailing, at shop level (floor or managers office) would do all of that for a part of the sport which is run at weekends, and busy retailing weekends at that. 


Posted By: alstorer
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 12:08pm
I've heard tales that some families based at the same club will join forces with another family to buy a motorhome and multiple stacker between them, taking turns to drive it and kids to events. Spreads the cost, spreads the travel burden- and the motorhome retains a decent resale value.

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Posted By: iitick
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 12:31pm
So Mr B & Q should take a second job so that he can mix with the 'in' crowd. Really? Let's face it Dinghy sailing and dinghy sailors are nice, safe, comfortable people. You meet a nice class of people sailing who incline towards 'posh' when supporting youth. But it is a middle class hobby, a 'posh' hobby? Certainly perceived as such by society. This has nothing to do with real cost, if you avoid the motorhome, it costs more for the boy to play hockey than sail and the boats we own, some of which have been very successful, cost very little. It makes me sad that sailing is seen as exclusive but it certainly is. Exclusive = posh, perhaps.


Posted By: yellowwelly
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 12:36pm
let's not ruin the stereotype Al...

Of course today's new parents could decide not to buy a house and rent instead.  That way they are not helping to fund the baby boomers who have seen the most monumental capital gain windfall in modern economic history through the housing market.

They would also not be nudged into the 3% (or even 4%) in stamp duty- which is helping to significantly reduce the liabilities of a previous feckless, war mongering Government that, in all likelihood, they didn't vote for either.


Posted By: yellowwelly
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 12:40pm
Originally posted by iitick

So Mr B & Q should take a second job so that he can mix with the 'in' crowd. Really?

no, he should if he wants a motorhome and isn't prepared to cut back on other things to to get it.  Or he could take some cheap finance while interest rates are low.

Whether he defines it to an 'in crowd' is up to him.  I'd suggest living his own life, in every possible way, would be a more rewarding experience for him and his kids. 


Posted By: Blue One
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 12:45pm
 can i please just mention hitler nowSmile. in the hope that this thread will change direction or end, before it all ends in CryCry


Posted By: Rupert
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 12:51pm
Did Hitler own a motorhome? He certainly wasn't posh, so I doubt he sailed.

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Posted By: iitick
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 12:55pm
Oh.....so the poor worker should get 2 jobs (and wash more) and us baby boomers have exploited the system are wrong as well. As I sit in my kitchen I can see the Peak District landscape out of my window, not a house in sight, just sheep. My Aga, owned  for almost 40 years is warming my bum. Just trying to annoy you now. I will go and shoot a rambler, for sport, not 'posh' sport, just sport.


Posted By: Blue One
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 12:59pm
Originally posted by Rupert

Did Hitler own a motorhome? He certainly wasn't posh, so I doubt he sailed.


think his main  hobbies were painting, invading russia and genocide. with i litttle bit of drug taking on the side.


Posted By: iitick
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 1:00pm
New topic then....If Hitler sailed a dinghy, what would he sail?


Posted By: yellowwelly
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 1:00pm
Originally posted by iitick

Oh.....so the poor worker should ... wash more.

It would help.   


Posted By: yellowwelly
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 1:06pm
Originally posted by iitick

New topic then....If Hitler sailed a dinghy, what would he sail?

If Hitler sailed a dinghy it would be Musto Skiff.

It's designed by a German.  It works well on German Lakes.  It appeals to the youth and like a 49erFX, looks good being sailed with long, flowing golden locks.  

Its powerful, and can be quite elegant and charming to the poor plebs of dinghydom looking for something different.   

It has relaxed rules about advertising therefore he could swastika that little baby up, Himmler could get his SS logo down that kite no trouble and as for Goebbals spinning something anti-Semitic, well, he could probably find an angle- like hosting all events on the Sabbath or something.

If Mussolini sailed a dinghy it would be the RS100.




Posted By: iitick
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 1:13pm
Whatever Stalin sailed he would just have every other competitor killed so he won. Roosevelt, scud and Churchill Finn (fatty). Emperor Hirohito in a Byte. All Japanese are small and clever.


Posted By: gordon
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 1:16pm
Social class is only partly to do with wealth, but a lot to do with lifestyle choices and how one decides to live.

Does "posh" refer to upper middle class, or A/B socio economoc category?

Really"posh" people won't take their children on the RYA Youth sailing programme and circuit - their children will be helming the families second Dragon in Cowes by the age of 14. They will of course be attending a horribly expensive fee-paying school were they will compete against their social equals in the public school team racing circuit - before going of to the States on a school TR tour. They will continue to enjoy yotting throughout their life.

The parents who condem their kids tp years on the Oppie/420/radial treadmill are not posh - they are aspirational middle class (B/C1) who believe that competing in this circuit will be good for their kids (an unfortunate relic of Thatcherism). They have the budget and choose to spend it on new boats, sails, coaches, travel and, the ultimate Oppie parent accessory, the camper. Long term, most of these kids will not sail as adults (even the Oppie class admits to an 80% drop out rate). One or two will continue and become elite sailors.

Meanwhile, down at your local gravel pit kids are having fun sailing battered boats, often paid for out of pocket money, birthday money etc.  Because they chose sailing as a sport they will continue

This of course is caricature - but close enough to the truth.


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Posted By: yellowwelly
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 1:27pm
Originally posted by iitick

Whatever Stalin sailed he would just have every other competitor killed so he won. Roosevelt, scud and Churchill Finn (fatty). Emperor Hirohito in a Byte. All Japanese are small and clever.

Stalin would have sailed a Laser... no question.  The rig alone is soviet in the extreme.  Thanks to Glasnost, sailing would be a sport for the people, except the lakes are all frozen and the villagers are so undernourished they wouldn't have the righting moment.  However Sailing would be, according to Daily Mirror, the greatest sport there ever was, and by contrast, America would have joined in, probably with the Blaze (mk 1) rather than having a rather sullen and depleted dinghy scene- outside of preppy circles on the North East Coast.      

I like the Churchill comparison... having seen some of the gentlemen on the Finn Masters I think they'd be proud; British Pride too... whatever that is.  I guess it's like when your wife sent some flowers to Buck Palace when Diana died. 

Hirohito would have designed something that looked like a Byte, but it would have been Japanese.  His grandson would have redesigned it and it would sail itself these days, or be turned into a computer game with a globally recognised cartoon character franchise- playable on an iPhone 5S with just your thumbs.    


Posted By: transient
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 1:28pm
Originally posted by yellowwelly

Originally posted by iitick

So Mr B & Q should take a second job so that he can mix with the 'in' crowd. Really?

no, he should if he wants a motorhome and isn't prepared to cut back on other things to to get it.  Or he could take some cheap finance while interest rates are low.

Whether he defines it to an 'in crowd' is up to him.  I'd suggest living his own life, in every possible way, would be a more rewarding experience for him and his kids. 


Who the hell is this bloke you're talking about.......come on guys, HE DOESN'T EXIST except in your heads for the purpose of confirming some dogma......if he did exist he and has any sense he probably doesn't measure the value of his life buy sailing and owning a mobile home.

Nobody has defined "posh" either.

.....so here you are arguing about a word that has no common  meaning using a fictitious stereotype who can't be consulted.  


Posted By: yellowwelly
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 1:28pm
Originally posted by gordon



This of course is caricature - but close enough to the truth.

too damn close, makes me almost want to respond seriously....  Confused


Posted By: yellowwelly
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 1:32pm
Originally posted by transient

ome on guys, HE DOESN'T EXIST except in your heads for the purpose of confirming some dogma...... 

maybe he does, maybe he doesn't... but life is full of choices, and should someone of modest means really, really want to push their kid around a sailing circuit, then he or she could make those choices to make that happen if they so decided.  Ben Ainslie wasn't born in Falmouth.

But I agree with your sentiment- a little bit of common sense would seem to suggest there would be important things in life, and actually, a bit of local club sailing might not be such a bad way to introduce your kids to the sport.


Posted By: rogerd
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 2:01pm
Thank you Guys. You have cheered me up no end. I recuperating after a spell in hospital and driving Angie mad by being stuck in the house and being very bored. This thread has made me laugh out loud several times and I feel so much better.
By the way your descriptions of squad parents are not ones I recognise. My niece and nephew chose themselves to do the RYA system they have learnt a huge amount not just about sailing, have gained maturity and are nice well mannered young adults. There has been no pushy parenting just you have to decide if this is what you seriously want to do every weekend for the next year and the support has been given.
My brother has taken the job where he works away M-F and travels to events to meet the family there. The cost sharing has been done with other families sharing boat costs and some times other kids ataying in the motorhome.
No private education just sheer bloody hard work. no 9-5 the job is done when its fnshed. If owning a motorhome makes you posh then I was posh for the last two years and we only sold it because we weren't using it enough. Funnily enough because I took some extra work that took up alternate weekend.
Looks like I am a stereotype as well as my brother!


Posted By: iitick
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 2:26pm
Originally posted by transient

Originally posted by yellowwelly

[QUOTE=iitick]So Mr B & Q should take a second job so that he can mix with the 'in' crowd. Really? [
no, he should if he wants a motorhome and isn't prepared to cut back on other things to to get it.  Or he could take some cheap finance while interest rates are low.

Whether he defines it to an 'in crowd' is up to him.  I'd suggest living his own life, in every possible way, would be a more rewarding experience for him and his kids. 


Who the hell is this bloke you're talking about.......come on guys, HE DOESN'T EXIST except in your heads for the purpose of confirming some dogma......if he did exist he and has any sense he probably doesn't measure the value of his life buy sailing and owning a mobile home.

Nobody has defined "posh" either.

.....so here you are arguing about a word that has no common  meaning using a fictitious stereotype who can't be consulted.  


Of course this verging on nonsense, that is what makes it perfect for this forum!  Where is Graham (I cant do the posh spelling, no one spelt it like that at Hillbrook Road Secondary School)


Posted By: Rupert
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 2:28pm
Hitler wouldn't be sailing - he would be in the committee boat/bunker, directing a fleet of cloned Laser sailors/storm troopers, all trained in exactly the same way so they sail/ march off the start line together into Poland. 

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Posted By: yellowwelly
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 2:32pm
Graeme is at the spa, he's booked in for a pedicure followed by some further holistic therapy to remedy the anxiety attacks.

Had Graeme been born Graham, and chosen a different path; he would be at the Spar, getting booked for chaffing a 3L bottle of White Lightning to appease his alcohol dependency.  


Posted By: yellowwelly
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 2:33pm
Originally posted by Rupert

Hitler wouldn't be sailing - he would be in the committee boat/bunker, directing a fleet of cloned Laser sailors/storm troopers, all trained in exactly the same way so they sail/ march off the start line together into Poland. 

and he would have done it with less resources than the RYA... inspirational bloke huh?


Posted By: RS400atC
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 3:02pm
Originally posted by iitick

Hang on! You just made my point. You and your parents had the degree of affluence which enabled you to make a choice that was convenient to you. Are you implying that Mr B & Q could finance his child's sailing in that way if he gave up beer and fags?

So many of the affluent middle classes have no idea of the financial gulf that exists between themselves and 'ordinary' workers.

I am sure that Mr B & Q could follow the circuit but with a tent and 02 Astra, lots of adult sailors do but please do not tell me that the Motorhome coralle at Graffham was not somewhere in the region of 'posh'.


Didn't the bloke from B&Q used to have an Ultra 30?


Posted By: iitick
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 3:52pm
Was there an Ultra 30 in orange with B&Q on the sail........I may have some memory of that. Possibly it belonged to an employee. Small beer though when you look at what that Korean wearhouseman working for Oracle bought to flash round in.........



Posted By: Rupert
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 4:10pm
1 1/2 hulls of a trimaran went round the world as B&Q a few years ago, too.

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Posted By: alstorer
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 4:39pm
the other half was Castorama, same parent company, same sort of shop, but French. Did laugh when I went down to Falmouth when Ellen (not posh) had finished; it was tied up on a pontoon at the National Maritime museum with the B&Q side facing away into Carrick Roads.

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Posted By: iitick
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 6:11pm
Oh yes.....we went to meet her in B & Q Derby as part of Derbyshire Youth Sailing. She was charming and certainly not posh. I shook her feminine hand. I never knew she worked on the plumbing counter and paid for the boat herself. They missed that in the book.


Posted By: Bootscooter
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 8:31pm
To me, "posh" is the wrong word in regards to the discussion. Posh (IMHO) infers "old money", Public (private) schools, perhaps the word snobby fits in there also.

In this context I think people are actually referring to "Monied" or "affluent". Even then, I really don't agree with a lot that's been written. Yes there are some parents that happen to have plenty on money that take their kids to events in large expensive motorhomes, but for every one of them, there's at least 10-15 that are in Travelodges, beaten up old motorhomes, smaller camper vans or tents.

Take us, for example. We are homeowners (well, paying a stack each month on the mortgage), does that make us posh? No.
The kids go to State school. Not posh.
We do live in Oxfordshire, which could be seen by some to be posh, but that's only because that's where I'm posted as a Serviceman, so not posh.
Oh yeah, I'm a Serviceman (not an Officer) so again not posh.
We did spend £10K on a very old motorhome 4 years ago, but only because I did the sums and worked out that it would save us £3K a year in food and accommodation costs over Travelodges/Premier Inns and Pub food. Used it for 3 years, saved that £9K then decided when my daughter chose not to carry on with events/squading that it was a bit of overkill for 3 of us. Sold it for £7K and now have a VW T5 semi-converted camper that also doubles as a daily driver. Does that make us "Posh"?

No, it doesn't. It makes us normal working people who decide that our priorities are not foreign holidays each year, but using the equivalent money each year to give our kids something they enjoy that is fulfilling, social, sporting and educational that'll help them develop as good people. We also get to spent quality time with our teenagers - and they enjoy spending time with us.... something that relatively few families enjoy so much of these days.

If either of my kids become Champions then so much the better, but that really isn't my target (even if it is the boy's), I will however do all I can to give them the opportunity, the chance to go as far as they can, whilst we can.

Posh, no. Happy, yes.

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Posted By: Nick Peters
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 8:32pm
Since when did the Y&Y forum become entertaining??!! Keep it going....not feeling sharp enough to get a witty word in edgeways...

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Posted By: JimC
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 8:41pm
Originally posted by iitick

I never knew she worked on the plumbing counter and paid for the boat herself. They missed that in the book.


Ellen is a bloody good example actually. I don't suppose one person in a million would be prepared to endure the living conditions she did in her early days in order to be able to get into the Mini Transat class...


Posted By: iitick
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 9:33pm
In reality of course what we should say is 'perceived as posh' and that, it is! Now, we live and sail in Derbyshire but 20 miles away in Cheshire there is another club. This club is scummed by duck sh*t, shielded by trees and poisoned by affluence.  You  can get Pims in the bar and there are very few nettles to loose the junk in. Car parking is by Stratstone and HR Owen.

Why? Cos' its near Alderley Edge and hosts the sailing club of a well known local private school. For those parents sailing is an important part of Harry or Harriet's social education, a skill they will need when staying at the Abbersoch cottage.

I generalise of course, there is no fun in not being bigoted as I  am sure Booterscooter realises. 


Posted By: iitick
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 9:37pm
When I met Ellen I was super impressed, so natural and so small. it was hard to believe what she endured...particularly sailing a Blue Peter Dinghy, was it not?


Posted By: getafix
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 9:40pm
Originally posted by iitick


Why? Cos' its near Alderley Edge and hosts the sailing club of a well known local private school. For those parents sailing is an important part of Harry or Harriet's social education, a skill they will need when staying at the Abbersoch cottage.


Really? There is a sailing club teaching these posh or wannabe little s**ts how to drink too much cider, swear incoherently, have underage sex and projectile vomit over small seaside villages? 

I wondered were the early summer youth populations of Abersoch, Salcombe, Rock etc had learnt their "skills" , now we know Wink


Posted By: Bootscooter
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 9:45pm
Originally posted by iitick

I generalise of course, there is no fun in not being bigoted as I  am sure Booterscooter realises. 




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Posted By: iitick
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 9:48pm
Originally posted by getafix

Originally posted by iitick


Why? Cos' its near Alderley Edge and hosts the sailing club of a well known local private school. For those parents sailing is an important part of Harry or Harriet's social education, a skill they will need when staying at the Abbersoch cottage.


Really? There is a sailing club teaching these posh or wannabe little s**ts how to drink too much cider, swear incoherently, have underage sex and projectile vomit over small seaside villages? 

I wondered were the early summer youth populations of Abersoch, Salcombe, Rock etc had learnt their "skills" , now we know Wink

Ah....wish I was young again.....


Posted By: getafix
Date Posted: 18 Nov 13 at 9:56pm
Originally posted by iitick

Originally posted by getafix

Originally posted by iitick


Why? Cos' its near Alderley Edge and hosts the sailing club of a well known local private school. For those parents sailing is an important part of Harry or Harriet's social education, a skill they will need when staying at the Abbersoch cottage.


Really? There is a sailing club teaching these posh or wannabe little s**ts how to drink too much cider, swear incoherently, have underage sex and projectile vomit over small seaside villages? 

I wondered were the early summer youth populations of Abersoch, Salcombe, Rock etc had learnt their "skills" , now we know Wink

Ah....wish I was young again.....

Now I'm getting visions of that classic Monty Python where JC is teaching the boys about sex.....such fun!



Posted By: yellowwelly
Date Posted: 19 Nov 13 at 12:20am
Originally posted by iitick


Why? Cos' its near Alderley Edge and hosts the sailing club of a well known local private school. For those parents sailing is an important part of Harry or Harriet's social education, a skill they will need when staying at the Abbersoch cottage.

There's posh n' posh... Alderley Edge is still in northern monkey territory.

and it's Abersoch, with one 'B'.... jeez, good job you don't work for a cloth printers, dozens of young teens would be walking around with ski tops from Merry Bell and yotty jerseys from Saulcum.  Is Fat Face still going?  Or have Jack Wills moved in and sold out to the custom tw*t-top market yet?  


Posted By: Rupert
Date Posted: 19 Nov 13 at 8:43am
Originally posted by iitick

When I met Ellen I was super impressed, so natural and so small. it was hard to believe what she endured...particularly sailing a Blue Peter Dinghy, was it not?


I think she sailed something a little bigger round the world, though.


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Posted By: patj
Date Posted: 19 Nov 13 at 7:25pm
Every sport has those perceived "posh" and those who struggle to keep doing what they love.
 
Even polo has its equivalent of the tatty puddle club where players keep the grass cut and do the maintenance. The first state school team to enter the schools polo tournament was captained by the son of a carpenter originally from a council estate.
 
That lad is now driving his own children all over the place for Judo sqad tournament and training and struggling to make ends meet.
 
So much of "posh" is in the mind - glitz and no substance - how many of those "posh motorhomes" are hired for the weekend?
Anyway "motorhome" is a fairly recent development. It was always "Camper van" before and I've owned them for years.



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