Y&Y joins china in banning free speech
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Topic: Y&Y joins china in banning free speech
Posted By: a3xloser
Subject: Y&Y joins china in banning free speech
Date Posted: 06 Aug 08 at 10:53am
yes its not only china who limits what ppl can say and read, right here on yachts and yachting forums G,R,F has been band for standing up for truth and freedom,as sailers i thought you would defend the right of freedom, but seems not, in the words of the song,"sit back tight up,never put a fight up,sit there steaming till your face turns green... ...your a goodmorning machine, your a how are you device. robots robots your just a lot of robots.
siting there too scared to say what you think, in case the forum gods turn on you,
come on guys, be brave i am not asking you to sail round the world single handed, but in there spirt of freedom, i ask you to fight for the rights of a truly great man of words, lets get G,R,F the right to speek, for it is he that says what we are all to scard to say 
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Posted By: Guest
Date Posted: 06 Aug 08 at 11:47am
Has he? How would we know this?
I am sure I saw him posting quite recently ...
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Posted By: Black no sugar
Date Posted: 06 Aug 08 at 11:52am
 Are you related to Grumpf by any chance? Ever been windsurfing?
"G,R,F has been band for standing up for truth and freedom"
"for it is he that says what we are all to scard to say"
Maybe you're right, but daily homophobic, misogynist abuse isn't my idea of the truth. For every interesting post he wrote, he produced 3 pages of gratuitous provocation. He's like the avatar he recently acquired: black and white, loud, and way over the top.
Then again, if you're such an advocate for Grumpf's rights, you'll tell me to shut up because I'm a woman but not the acceptable type (you know, 22 years old blonde with great body and big tits). Unfortunately, I belong to the "old minger" congregation and thus have no right to be voicing my opinion here.
Also, I do not windsurf.
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Posted By: Sunseeker
Date Posted: 06 Aug 08 at 11:59am
I don't know GRF, I find him a little too opinionated and at times he speaks absolute rubbish. But he is thought provoking and progressive, probably good for our sport and lets face it, ever so entertaining. I say let the man back, lets hear more of his excuses when the v3000, 470, 505, laser, gp14 and mirror all condemn his Alto to the back of the fleet. But lets also hear how he develops it, applies his windsurfing background to the class, and who knows, teaches all of us a thing or two. There is no monopoly on good ideas and I for one think that he might have some.
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Posted By: furtive
Date Posted: 06 Aug 08 at 12:15pm
He's just turned up on SA - let's see how the seppos cope with him!
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Posted By: alstorer
Date Posted: 06 Aug 08 at 12:36pm
Originally posted by Sunseeker
I don't know GRF, I find him a little too opinionated and at times he speaks absolute rubbish. But he is thought provoking and progressive, probably good for our sport and lets face it, ever so entertaining. I say let the man back, lets hear more of his excuses when the v3000, 470, 505, laser, gp14 and mirror all condemn his Alto to the back of the fleet. But lets also hear how he develops it, applies his windsurfing background to the class, and who knows, teaches all of us a thing or two. There is no monopoly on good ideas and I for one think that he might have some. |
Indeed, of late, his stuff on the Alto has actually been quite interesting and informative.
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Posted By: The Moo
Date Posted: 06 Aug 08 at 12:45pm
Isn't this his second ban? If so he managed to find his way back quite easily after the first. I am sure he will be back or at least his "Alto " ego will be!
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Posted By: ASok
Date Posted: 06 Aug 08 at 12:47pm
Originally posted by turnturtle
FWIW- I didn't find grumpf's posts too offensive, buit then I admit I have a very relaxed attitude to 'abuse' especially from the facelessness of a sailing forum; but then I'm male, straight and don't sail cats....
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I'm not sure where his hate of cats came from - maybe the fact that he's struggled enough with one hull let along managing two!
Anyway, I also had no problem with the bloke. As above I have a strong tolerance for abuse and don't find that much offensive. But, the admin have a duty to respond to calls for his banning if people feel that strongly about it.
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Posted By: Contender 541
Date Posted: 06 Aug 08 at 12:58pm
Originally posted by alstorer
Originally posted by Sunseeker
I don't know GRF, I find him a little too opinionated and at times he speaks absolute rubbish. But he is thought provoking and progressive, probably good for our sport and lets face it, ever so entertaining. I say let the man back, lets hear more of his excuses when the v3000, 470, 505, laser, gp14 and mirror all condemn his Alto to the back of the fleet. But lets also hear how he develops it, applies his windsurfing background to the class, and who knows, teaches all of us a thing or two. There is no monopoly on good ideas and I for one think that he might have some. |
Indeed, of late, his stuff on the Alto has actually been quite interesting and informative.
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GRF - For every one interesting post, three pages of flaming.
A bit of flaming can be entertaining, but when it is every post, it ceases to be entertainment and becomes abuse.
3 x no hoper (written like this to show my point that flaming can be done in an entertaining way) and others may wish to aquaint themselves of the posts of GRF and his homophobic, mysogonistic, cat hating and generally anything prodding opinions before deciding that the freedom of speech has been removed.
FWIW, No-one lives in a country where the freedom of speach is absolute (even if you think you do). Slander, Libel, Defamation, Obscenity, Perjury, Threats, Profanity, Company Secrets, Treason and Blasphemy anre all examples where the freedom of speech has been removed to provide a society.
Different countries have different limitations on the 'freedom of speech' . The denial of the Holocaust is one such limitation in Germany (and other european countries)
Hate Speech - on the Internet it is Flaming - has been accepted as non society compatible for centuries and all countries have rules about that (encitement to violence / terrorism anyone?)
Freedom of speech on Y&Y - Yes
Tolerance of Bigots and Flamers - now that is a different debate.
Please get the facts correct before starting debates and making statements like this otherwise we have Freddy Star ate my Hamster debacles
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Posted By: alstorer
Date Posted: 06 Aug 08 at 1:14pm
Also, this is a freely provided forum. Rules on free-speech etc are entirely the domain of the moderators/owners. This ain't no democracy.
I do appreciate that GRF's deliberate trolling:useful stuff ratio was way out of line (even for this place). But I thought he'd been getting a bit better. Not much, but a bit.
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Posted By: Medway Maniac
Date Posted: 06 Aug 08 at 1:35pm
To be fair, he relished 'taking it' as much 'dishing it out', apparently.
I do think we're becoming too precious in society. If someone is liable to be physically or seriously mentally damaged, then there's a case for banning, but the death penalty is an over-reaction to "mum, he called me a name", imho.
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Posted By: Pierre
Date Posted: 06 Aug 08 at 2:06pm
I take Isabel's point regarding mysogynistic comments etc. She is quite right and I fully empathise with her position. As for her comments regarding her own attributes ( i.e. minger etc), these are a red herring. She is fishing for compliments She's a slim, intelligent, blonde, attractive French woman. Her husband thinks so, and so would anyone who met her. Subject closed.
As for the wider issue of free speech. Well GRF could take it and dish it out. I'm afraid that "give and take" attitude is not one that is famliar to many on this board, more's the pity.
When all is said and done, he's out there sailing week in and week out, putting his money where his mouth is, and giving valuable feedback to all and sundry. I have no problem with the guy on that level, so would like to see him back. He is one of the few around here that has started any kind of informed debate.
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Posted By: Scooby_simon
Date Posted: 06 Aug 08 at 2:26pm
agreed; 1 interesting post ruined by 3 pages of rubbish.
SA can have him.
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Posted By: tack'ho
Date Posted: 06 Aug 08 at 3:00pm
Just to to takle the intial point there may be a right to free speech but as with all rights there is a responsibility, in this case to use it carefully. I would not use the same language whilst teaching kids to sail as I would use on a work night out!
Unfortunatly GRF despite often raising good points and provoking reasoned debate seemed unwilling (I'm quite sure he was not unable) to moderate his style of writing to suit the environment he was posting in. If Y&Y wish to promote this as a family friendly forum where no one should feel indimidated or have to deal with a bit of sledging (to use cricket vanacular) then thats their call, it's their forum. If we don't like it then we are free to exercise our right of choice.
The only solution I could see is for GRF to apologise to Mark for stepping over the line and ask if he might be allowed back in, whilst promising to moderate his posts. I can't see this happening, so bon voyage GRF good luck with the Alto, and have a look at Snowboarding wristguards surely it must be possible to build a comfy set!!
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Posted By: Stefan Lloyd
Date Posted: 06 Aug 08 at 3:13pm
Originally posted by Medway Maniac
To be fair, he relished 'taking it' as much 'dishing it out', apparently. |
He's likely to enjoy plenty of the former on SA.
He's not stupid and must have been perfectly well aware he was running the risk of a ban here. His choice.
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Posted By: JimC
Date Posted: 06 Aug 08 at 4:48pm
Originally posted by Stefan Lloyd
He's not stupid |
Not convinced... Well rid of anyway IMNSHO. There might be some entertainment coming on SA. It is possible to get banned there, although it takes a bit of work...
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Posted By: Scooby_simon
Date Posted: 06 Aug 08 at 7:07pm
Originally posted by tack'ho
The only solution I could see is for GRF to apologise to Mark for stepping over the line and ask if he might be allowed back in, whilst promising to moderate his posts. I can't see this happening, so bon voyage GRF good luck with the Alto, and have a look at Snowboarding wristguards surely it must be possible to build a comfy set!!
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I think he's probably need to apologise to everyone on the forum; I think hes fecked overyone off.
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Posted By: a3xloser
Date Posted: 06 Aug 08 at 7:25pm
well he hasn,t been rude to me, maybe hes only rude to people he thinks are not worthy of repect?
and on a rough count i make it about 70% against the ban and i am as good with stats as i am at sailing
maybe we could slit the forums up in two, one half for the rufty tufty sea fairing guys who can give as good as they get, and the other half for the ladys and guys who sail cats, love yazz or own Mac computers?
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Posted By: bert
Date Posted: 06 Aug 08 at 7:43pm
Originally posted by a3xloser
and on a rough count i make it about 70% against the ban and i am as good with stats as i am at sailing
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Maybe because the silent majority stay silent & therefore not counted but I like the idea that his rants are gone!
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Posted By: Scooby_simon
Date Posted: 06 Aug 08 at 7:51pm
Originally posted by a3xloser
well he hasn,t been rude to me, maybe hes only rude to people he thinks are not worthy of repect?
and on a rough count i make it about 70% against the ban and i am as good with stats as i am at sailing
maybe we could slit the forums up in two, one half for the rufty tufty sea fairing guys who can give as good as they get, and the other half for the ladys and guys who sail cats, love yazz or own Mac computers?
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Are you related to him? You come over just like him. I can mix it with the best of them. However he just insults people with his bigoted, homophobic and sexist rubbish.
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Posted By: Guest
Date Posted: 06 Aug 08 at 8:09pm
Originally posted by Scooby_simon
Originally posted by a3xloser
well he hasn,t been rude to me, maybe hes only rude to people he thinks are not worthy of repect?
and on a rough count i make it about 70% against the ban and i am as good with stats as i am at sailing
maybe we could slit the forums up in two, one half for the rufty tufty sea fairing guys who can give as good as they get, and the other half for the ladys and guys who sail cats, love yazz or own Mac computers?
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Are you related to him? You come over just like him. I can mix it with the best of them. However he just insults people with his bigoted, homophobic and sexist rubbish.
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a3xloser = GRF = Grumpf ...???
Joined 4th Aug ... bit fishy
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Posted By: a3xloser
Date Posted: 06 Aug 08 at 8:16pm
excuse me i am not GRF i join the forum to ask about a boat i was looking at, this kindly guy GRF gave some helpfull advice,next thing i know he has been banned,
anyone who can mistake a uneducated non sailing trucker from wolverhampton, for the sophisticated skilled sailor GRF is not nearly as smart as they like to think they are
but i can see why GRF end up insuling some of you
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Posted By: ASok
Date Posted: 06 Aug 08 at 8:23pm
That explains it - trucker!
Are you parked up and bored? This must be the only thing keeping you entertained while you wait for your breaks to finish.
Its a sad hobby trolling - hoping its given you a smile while your tucked up in your cab. Got a few other forums on the go as well or is just this one that you've chosen to bait?
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Posted By: Villan
Date Posted: 06 Aug 08 at 8:27pm
Originally posted by a3xloser
anyone who can mistake a uneducated non sailing trucker from wolverhampton, for the sophisticated skilled sailor GRF is not nearly as smart as they like to think they are
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Sorry, Had to put that bit in bold.
He's a windsurfer with ideas above his status. Read back through the archives and his old threads, and you'll see why he has been banned.
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Posted By: bert
Date Posted: 06 Aug 08 at 9:16pm
Guests Guest Group

Joined: 11 Mar 04 Online Status: Online Posts: -11 |
Ross that's blasphemy.
Using the word Cherub and kite line in the same sentence, go and wash your mouth with soap and water.
Knowing the mental age of the cherubim they would have used the thin 500lbs breaking strain stuff rather than the spectra leader lines employed I notice to increasing great effect by quite a few boats at the Dinghy show.
The bits I'm using are the bar floats and possibly the leader lines, they worked well on the 500 and save Jumanjis hands, the bar floats also save me having to tape around those chain plate things with the pins in.
edit: The lowers on my boat are also made of the same stuff, a thin line woven from spectra or dyneema with no plaid outer and secret spliced.
Edited by G.R.F on 05 Aug 08 at 9:00am
Maybe we should add guests to the list of GRF`s as well |
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Posted By: theycallmegod
Date Posted: 06 Aug 08 at 9:34pm
Guests is the new name for someone whos been banned...
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Posted By: a3xloser
Date Posted: 06 Aug 08 at 9:54pm
Originally posted by ASok
That explains it - trucker!
Are you parked up and bored? This must be the only thing keeping you entertained while you wait for your breaks to finish.
Its a sad hobby trolling - hoping its given you a smile while your tucked up in your cab. Got a few other forums on the go as well or is just this one that you've chosen to bait?
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sounds like someones bitter cos they would be in he girly half of the forum
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Posted By: 29er310
Date Posted: 06 Aug 08 at 10:12pm
No but seriously you are a trucker?
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Posted By: Merlinboy
Date Posted: 06 Aug 08 at 10:41pm
I say get GRF back. In the words of that bird from big brother he is hillrarrriooooussss
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Posted By: Rupert
Date Posted: 06 Aug 08 at 10:45pm
Sadly, GRF seemed unable to work out that what he thought was humour was in fact irritating rubbish which detracted from anything interesting he might occasionally have had to say. And why take up sailing or join a sailing forum if your general opinion of those you sail/converse with is so low?
I would have to agree with Mark's decision.
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Posted By: a3xloser
Date Posted: 06 Aug 08 at 10:50pm
Originally posted by 29er310
No but seriously you are a trucker? |
yes drive a 44 tonner,
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Posted By: Medway Maniac
Date Posted: 06 Aug 08 at 11:05pm
Originally posted by ASok
That explains it - trucker!
Are you parked up and bored? This must be the only thing keeping you entertained while you wait for your breaks to finish.
Its a sad hobby trolling - hoping its given you a smile while your tucked up in your cab. Got a few other forums on the go as well or is just this one that you've chosen to bait?
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Surely this merits a ban too, then?
Frankly, if people didn't like GRF, they didn't have to read his threads (to invert the liberal argument that if you don't like porn on TV you can always turn it off [even though you may have paid good money to the TV company screening it])
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Posted By: simsy
Date Posted: 07 Aug 08 at 12:25am
Haha, nice one MM.
Because G.R.F is such an anomaly to this forum, different people are going to be offended by his difference in opinion or his prejudice - which we have all seen, so no complaints there.
But does this not highlight the fact that an indivdual forumite blocker would be ideal as people wouldn't have to read the views of people they didn't want to. Everyone has a difference in opinion, and in extreme cases (maybe not extreme) - when people talk complete bollo cks all the time, you wont have to listen.
I personally wouldn't block G.R.F, but the certain indivduals that continue to declare their 'class' is the best, no names mentioned ( 14's & Cherubs hint hint ) I would happily live on without their twaddle and nonsense.
But each to thier own.Not everyone agrees with G.R.F, but I don't agree with many people on this board, neither do most people, but I dont see them banned.
However, im not 100% why he was banned so I may be missing the point entirely. But hey, who cares.
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Posted By: bert
Date Posted: 07 Aug 08 at 12:27am
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Frankly, if people didn't like GRF, they didn't have to read his threads (to invert the liberal argument that if you don't like porn on TV you can always turn it off [even though you may have paid good money to the TV company screening it])
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But when he has a opinion on everything that means by your reasoning we should read nothing!.
I still think he has gone to a better place.
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Posted By: simsy
Date Posted: 07 Aug 08 at 12:41am
G.R.F sets the bait.
A LOT of people take it.
They get wound up.
Everyone gets in a debate about society and poilitcs.
It all ends in tears.
This happens in every forum on the internet, everyday! It's not new, it's not different. Yeah, its not great fun....
but guys, this has blown so out of proportion its getting ridiculous.
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Posted By: GBR884
Date Posted: 07 Aug 08 at 8:29am
Originally posted by Merlinboy
I say get GRF back. In the words of that bird from big brother he is hillrarrriooooussss |
Seconded!! He is pretty funny!! Just dont take him too seriously, yes he steps over the line sometimes but haven't we all?? If you dont like it then skip his posts!
And ASok...........G.R.F can be personal but i feel for a3xloser, he is a newbie, and surely your post should get you banned because that was personal and downright rude. All this talk of getting people into the sport and you put a post like that.........very clever.
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Posted By: dopamine
Date Posted: 07 Aug 08 at 8:49am
Originally posted by simsy
G.R.F sets the bait.
A LOT of people take it.
They get wound up.
Everyone gets in a debate about society and poilitcs.
It all ends in tears.
This happens in every forum on the internet, everyday! It's not new, it's not different. Yeah, its not great fun....
but guys, this has blown so out of proportion its getting ridiculous.
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Very true!
I've personally been enjoying most of GRF's contributions, all forums need trolls sometimes. I think that most of his comments are intended as good humoured and constructive (in an offhand sort of way) and his sexist comments are all meant to be taken lightly, as are his Cherub rants.
Unfortunately I think the homophobia comes across as genuine..........don't know what the name is for an unrational fear or dislike of multihulls is tho?
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Posted By: a3xloser
Date Posted: 07 Aug 08 at 9:12am
Banning ASok please no, not in my name we have clashed a little and some of his post on my first thread where a bit harsh,, but i belive this was on a missunderstanding, and some of his other posts have been usefull, and to be fair i did end up calling him a "a know it all,know nothing, patronising insulting and opinionated snot nosed git, keep sniffing the coke your so cool" which with hindsight he may have took as rude
this thread is about freedom to speak, not more banning,
on that this thread now shows over 90% of people think GRF should not have been banned, and that the forum is a lesser place with out him, as for the anti gay views he has, i belive in test 80% of homerphobes ar infact represed gays or bi, and that they are unknowing projecting there anger outwards as if its other gays have made them like this, sadly this means GRF may never get what most of you lot have been saying he needs for a long time, a bloody good f......
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Posted By: JimC
Date Posted: 07 Aug 08 at 9:26am
Originally posted by a3xloser
on that this thread now shows over 90% of people think GRF should not have been banned, |
Actually they don't. I've just been through it and I reckon that (a smallish) majority of contributors to the thread support his extirpation.
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Posted By: a3xloser
Date Posted: 07 Aug 08 at 9:29am
Originally posted by dopamine
Unfortunately I think the homophobia comes across as genuine..........don't know what the name is for an unrational fear or dislike of multihulls is tho?
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looked this up in the oxford english dictionary,the name is for an unrational fear or dislike of multihulls is a Sailor
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Posted By: Guest
Date Posted: 07 Aug 08 at 9:35am
Perhaps Y&Y Moderators would explain their position on this thread so we can understand the forum rules.
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Posted By: a3xloser
Date Posted: 07 Aug 08 at 9:36am
Originally posted by JimC
Originally posted by a3xloser
on that this thread now shows over 90% of people think GRF should not have been banned, |
Actually they don't. I've just been through it and I reckon that (a smallish) majority of contributors to the thread support his extirpation. |
yes if you count every persons view, i have excluded views i didn't like and it does come out at 90% for GRF, people who agree with the ban must agree with censorship, well i censored them ok
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Posted By: JimC
Date Posted: 07 Aug 08 at 10:36am
Originally posted by Guest#260
Perhaps Y&Y Moderators would explain their position on this thread so we can understand the forum rules. |
Well I'm not a mod or associated with forum admin at all, but these are the rules you agree to when you register.
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My emphasis...
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Posted By: Jamie600
Date Posted: 07 Aug 08 at 11:33am
Originally posted by dopamine
Unfortunately I think the homophobia comes across as genuine..........don't know what the name is for an unrational fear or dislike of multihulls is tho?
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Hobiephobia?
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Posted By: ASok
Date Posted: 07 Aug 08 at 12:00pm
Originally posted by GBR884
And ASok...........G.R.F can be personal but i feel for a3xloser, he is a newbie, and surely your post should get you banned because that was personal and downright rude. All this talk of getting people into the sport and you put a post like that.........very clever.
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I stand by my point trolling for trollings sake is a bad habit and I can't really be bothered with it. Not a banning offence is it?
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Posted By: ASok
Date Posted: 07 Aug 08 at 12:02pm
Originally posted by a3xloser
Banning ASok please no, not in my name we have clashed a little and some of his post on my first thread where a bit harsh,, but i belive this was on a missunderstanding, and some of his other posts have been usefull, and to be fair i did end up calling him a "a know it all,know nothing, patronising insulting and opinionated snot nosed git, keep sniffing the coke your so cool" which with hindsight he may have took as rude
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Posted By: John Heyes
Date Posted: 07 Aug 08 at 12:07pm
Thank you JimC for answering Rick’s question perfectly!
The terms and conditions for registering with the forum are clearly stated and you have all agreed to abide by them by signing up to make postings, so I fail to see why anyone has cause to complain when they repeatedly break those terms and conditions.
This is a sailing forum for people interested in sailing to swap news and gain information; it is not a place for inane comments and personal abuse. I am sure there are plenty of other places on the web for that. Personally I cannot fathom why people get so worked up about their rights to make whatever comments they like about people they have never even met on a sailing forum. If being a member is so important, then all you have to do is abide by the rules, add some informed comment to the debates and you will be welcomed with open arms. Just remember this can be read by anyone and we are trying to promote and grow our sport of sailing, not make it look ridiculous and inhabited by a bunch of unfriendly and abusive individuals.
Please can we move onto something more constructive!? What do you all think about the move to a monthly format for Yachts & Yachting magazine? Our first edition in the new bigger, brighter and more in-depth format will be out in will be out on September 11th and will have over 40 pages of Olympic regatta reports and interviews, as well as a report on the RS Classes championship in Garda.
For those of you who have always complained that the annual subscription for the fortnightly edition was too much, the good news is that the new subscription will be just £39.95 for a whole years’ reading, as well as all the advantages of being a member of the subscribers privilege club. Comments on a postcard please…
Can’t wait for the sailing to start, (with some wind hopefully!) in Quindao. The word is that Ben has chosen to use his Devoti boat from the previous Games……
Keep your eyes on the home page for all the news as it happens.
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Posted By: Chew my RS
Date Posted: 07 Aug 08 at 12:12pm
Well, I've got to say I think a move to a more in-depth, monthly, publication is a good thing. It was becoming too expensive to buy fortnightly and the articles were getting pretty thin. Hopefully there will be more proper journalism and less articles written by interested third parties published.
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Posted By: Stefan Lloyd
Date Posted: 07 Aug 08 at 12:26pm
Originally posted by John Heyes
What do you all think about the move to a monthly format for Yachts & Yachting magazine? |
I'm not very interested in month-old news. Sorry if that isn't the answer you are looking for.
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Posted By: English Dave
Date Posted: 07 Aug 08 at 5:40pm
Originally posted by John Heyes
What do you all think about the move to a monthly format for Yachts & Yachting magazine? Our first edition in the new bigger, brighter and more in-depth format will be out in will be out on September 11th and will have over 40 pages of Olympic regatta reports and interviews, as well as a report on the RS Classes championship in Garda.
For those of you who have always complained that the annual subscription for the fortnightly edition was too much, the good news is that the new subscription will be just £39.95 for a whole years’ reading, as well as all the advantages of being a member of the subscribers privilege club. Comments on a postcard please… |
What's the punishment for Admin Groupies who deliberately go off-thread?
I enjoyed some of GRF's comments. I could see exactly where his
frustration was coming from as an ex-windsurfer. But his bigotted
rantings became less and less funny and I became more and more
irritated by his hijacking of perfectly reasonable threads "59er info
sought".
His understanding of rig and sail design is very good and he is right
to say that windsurfer rig design is ahead of that for dinghies (on the
other hand windsurfers use different sails for different wind strengths
so their sails are always designed around being fully powered/over
powered - dinghy sailors get one sail for all winds). However, it is
the way he went about saying these things that got my back up. It's
partly forgivable in testosterone laden adolescent Cherubites, less so
from the keyboard of a middle aged man who increasingly sounded bitter
and twisted.
If he thought he was being funny then he should remember that it's
important to know your audience. The irony is that many of his most
ardent admirers are the young Cherubim from which he tried so hard to
distance himself.
(and Pierre - please take your tongue out of BNS' ear)
------------- English Dave
http://www.ballyholme.com - Ballyholme Yacht Club
(You'd think I'd be better at it by now)
Hurricane 5.9 SX
RS700
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Posted By: JimC
Date Posted: 07 Aug 08 at 5:51pm
Originally posted by English Dave
he is right to say that windsurfer rig design is ahead of that for dinghies |
Actually he's not... For instance the main business of the guy who designs the Moth rigs he criticised so ignorantly *is* leading edge Sailboard sails. My understanding is that the two styles of rig march to very different drummers. That's why putting sailboard rigs on dinghies, something that has been tried many times, is yet to work... If you put a modern floppy leech style sailboard rig* of the same sail area on an Enterprise you'd go straight to the back of the fleet.
*which are a great style of rig which I admire enormously - in the right place!
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Posted By: Roy Race
Date Posted: 07 Aug 08 at 5:53pm
Originally posted by Jamie600
Originally posted by dopamine
Unfortunately I think the homophobia comes across as genuine..........don't know what the name is for an unrational fear or dislike of multihulls is tho?
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Hobiephobia?
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Chortle!
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Posted By: Merlinboy
Date Posted: 07 Aug 08 at 9:06pm
Originally posted by English Dave
Originally posted by John Heyes
What do you all think about the move to a monthly format for Yachts & Yachting magazine? Our first edition in the new bigger, brighter and more in-depth format will be out in will be out on September 11th and will have over 40 pages of Olympic regatta reports and interviews, as well as a report on the RS Classes championship in Garda.
For those of you who have always complained that the annual subscription for the fortnightly edition was too much, the good news is that the new subscription will be just £39.95 for a whole years’ reading, as well as all the advantages of being a member of the subscribers privilege club. Comments on a postcard please… |
What's the punishment for Admin Groupies who deliberately go off-thread?
I enjoyed some of GRF's comments. I could see exactly where his frustration was coming from as an ex-windsurfer. But his bigotted rantings became less and less funny and I became more and more irritated by his hijacking of perfectly reasonable threads "59er info sought".
His understanding of rig and sail design is very good and he is right to say that windsurfer rig design is ahead of that for dinghies (on the other hand windsurfers use different sails for different wind strengths so their sails are always designed around being fully powered/over powered - dinghy sailors get one sail for all winds). However, it is the way he went about saying these things that got my back up. It's partly forgivable in testosterone laden adolescent Cherubites, less so from the keyboard of a middle aged man who increasingly sounded bitter and twisted.
If he thought he was being funny then he should remember that it's important to know your audience. The irony is that many of his most ardent admirers are the young Cherubim from which he tried so hard to distance himself.
(and Pierre - please take your tongue out of BNS' ear)
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Which cerubers suported GRF??? I cant think of any!
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Posted By: Isis
Date Posted: 07 Aug 08 at 9:43pm
I rarely agreed with anything he said but I did quite enjoy his constant stabs at getting attention.
He was no revolutionary and he was a poor troll by the standards of other forums... but if hes still floating around im damn sure he'll be beaming at how everyones still talking about him.
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Posted By: Matt Jackson
Date Posted: 08 Aug 08 at 1:44pm
I think the forum is a happier place without G.R.F.
He has some interesting ideas and is able to question what we have put up with for a long time from an informed (albeit parallel) position. However, his constant abuse and arrogance had long ago ceased to be funny or even acceptable.
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Posted By: Medway Maniac
Date Posted: 08 Aug 08 at 3:46pm
His attitude never bothered me. Small price to pay for some interesting threads, I'd say.
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http://www.3000class.org.uk" rel="nofollow - 3000 Class
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Posted By: Oli
Date Posted: 08 Aug 08 at 4:25pm
he did have some good ideas and some bad ones, but i dont think thats the problem, it was his attidtude, all knowing holy than though approach that was far too arrogant. yes he was trying to pull some legs, but i never bothered responding to his threads for that very reason. i mean why lower yourself just for someone throw abuse at you and what you sail.
if he could moderate his post to be less abussive then maybe more people would of joined in with his chat and that wouyld of benifitted everybody.
until he learns to put a filter on his brain mouth thing, im glad he's gone. found him very boring as it was always the same old rubbish he was harping on about.
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https://www.photo4me.com/profile/23908/" rel="nofollow - PRINTS
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Posted By: tmoore
Date Posted: 08 Aug 08 at 7:58pm
this thread is really going nowhere is it? all it has served to do is divide the forum and make us all look pathetic.
at the end of the day, the forum is owned and run by Y&Y crew (FOR NO FEE). looking at it this way do you really think its fair to try and tell them what they should and shouldnt do with the forum? ? ?
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RS300 - 410
Firefly F517 - Nutshell
Micro Magic RC yacht - Eclipse
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Posted By: hollandsd
Date Posted: 08 Aug 08 at 10:55pm
Why dont the lot of you grow up? The only people that are complaining are those who are immature enough to take G.R.F's comments to heart, they are all in jest, and i am sure anyone reading the posts could see that. Anyone that knows G.R.F knows to take most of what he says with a pinch of salt, he is genuinely a nice guy who is trying his best to make his way through the sailing world. As it has been mentioned earlier he placed the baits and all of you rushed head first in and took it bait line and sinker, i think he should be bought back but also i think that he will be much more appreciated on SA. He does have good input and some bad, as do many of you.
LIGHTEN UP GUYS
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Tasar 3501
RS600 698
RS600 782
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Posted By: a3xloser
Date Posted: 10 Aug 08 at 7:58am
Originally posted by tmoore
this thread is really going nowhere is it? all it has served to do is divide the forum and make us all look pathetic.
at the end of the day, the forum is owned and run by Y&Y crew (FOR NO FEE). looking at it this way do you really think its fair to try and tell them what they should and shouldnt do with the forum? ? ?
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this thread has shown that many poeple feel that banning was too strong, maybe a 2 week exclusion, main thing is it shows we as users have a say,(FOR NO FEE)its a forum not a yacht club, it costs nothing to run, and with out us the users it would be nothing.
i started this thread to find out what everyone thought about the banning of GRF, to be honest it looks about even, point is after this thread the powers that be, will shink a little more before they ban someone for saying what he thinks,
the forum seems like a cornish village after the surfers go home for the winter,so peacfull,beat me to death with a pasty someone
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Posted By: allanorton
Date Posted: 10 Aug 08 at 8:23am
Are the people that are offended by GRF living in the real world? Where do you live/work etc.? P*ss taking is part of life, you've got to learn to ignore it or laugh at it, but don't let it wind you up. Is the UK going soft?
GRF was just trying to provoke people, I've never met him, but I can bet that if you met him face to face he would probably still make the same sort of comments, but you would take them differently as his body language would show that the comments were made in jest.
What exactly was it that has got him banned?
I will miss reading about how the alto's comming on, & his comments on the dinghy sailing industry were spot on. I knew that if a thread was started by GRF, of commented on by GRF, it would at least be something entertaining to read!
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Posted By: a3xloser
Date Posted: 10 Aug 08 at 4:05pm
Originally posted by allanorton
What exactly was it that has got him banned?
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he i think got banned by mark jardin in this thread
http://www.yachtsandyachting.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4447&PN=1&TPN=4 - http://www.yachtsandyachting.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4 447&PN=1&TPN=4
he is listed a guest after he got banned, you should be able to spot his style
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Posted By: winging it
Date Posted: 10 Aug 08 at 6:58pm
Damn it, I go away for a week and miss all the fun. I think as a gay female I was on the receiving end of Grumpf's rants more than a few times, but because I knew he was deliberately winding me up, I didn't mind. In fact, I thought he was quite an interesting bloke. I was even going to go and join him and jumanji for a sail in the asbo.
Oh well.
I am off to Canada for a couple of weeks. Maybe he will have returned when I get back. I hope so.
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Posted By: Merlinboy
Date Posted: 10 Aug 08 at 8:39pm
The trouble is the people that complained about Grumpf, i'm guessing are some of the oldist forum members. He put some life into the forum and i loved reading about the development of the Alto.
I have found sailing anarchy getting more interesting recently.
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Posted By: G.R.F.
Date Posted: 10 Aug 08 at 11:17pm
OK, it's enough already.
The Hypocrisy here is breathtaking.
A feeding frenzy dwelling on the misfortune of another, the sheer moral
cowardice of it all is enough
to sicken me to my stomach. Accusations of every bigoted failing save
racism which I'm sure one or the other of you wouldn't hesitate to level if
you could call the French a 'race' apart.
That I'm going to even attempt to have to explain humour to a bunch of
'offended' dinghy sailors is bizarre enough.
But here goes.
Humour
Ambiguity, Contradiction in terms, Farce (a situation full of ridiculous
situations), Irony ( a way of speaking that shows one is joking or that the
meaning may be opposite to what is said )paradox, surprise/misdirection,
satire, (the use of humour to attack a person, an idea or behaviour that
one might think is bad or foolish) and many other descriptions of
probably on of the more complex of human emotions.
That the "clear majority' herein don't get it is written large.
A man who has loved and expensively educated four daughters has been
married for 23 yrs is entitled to fein misogyny. So can a man who has had
Homosexual friends and colleagues from long before it was ever
fashionable to, freely use the gay or lame term to describe objects or
situations, it's allowed, ask a homosexual friend if you have one, they
really don't care so why should you?
Because you are French and have no humour?
To round on someone no longer present to defend himself is the most
cowardly of group human conditions, I really am surprised at you all, and
yes sickened to my stomach by it.
As to the banning incident, lets say the post was over the top, why did
the moderator not simply delete the offensive post? Or delete the thread
even. It is still there, along with other stupid posts this forum is full
of, lets just discuss the drunk thread for a while shall we? If we are trying
to present a forum of collectively seriously behaved adults, come on now,
half the reason one varies one's "forum persona" is to imitate the IQ of
the participants and on the whole this is one of the more childish forums
on the internet.
So why make a big show of banning my personal forum identity, no
warning, no 'moderate your tone', nothing, just sheer out of the blue
petulance.
Why? It's a personality clash is why. Clearly I have a problem with young
Mark Jardine.
For all the bluster, there is no logical reason for the actions taken and I
simply am not prepared to be treated that way in public, sorry it's not on.
There are hundreds of far worse examples of vulgarity personal attacks,
not least some of those aimed at me in my absence, where's the banning
going on there?
Then, the final hypocrisy, publishing posts from me in the printed
magazine without even mentioning it, don't they realise I do have an
identity in the real world and I most certainly would not write in that style
or flippancy if I thought for one moment it was heading for a 'serious'
publication like Y&Y.
That just about takes the biscuit, given the current circumstances.
So I haven't actually returned since the incident and thank those that
voiced their support, it was only today someone asked if I'd seen this
thread, even hinted I was writing on it still, I'm not and I will not, even my
skin is only so thick.
There were two addresses in my PM box lost now, wing wangs and
another guy a cat sailor who wanted to try my harness, if either of them
read this, best email the addresses to mynameATsurfhyphensalesdot
com.
And if any of you had any shred of decency, you'd think on this incident.
Moron is one to high on the I.Q. scale to describe 'the clear email
complaint majority'. You can check who they are, just go to the members
list, sort by post count, the leader appears at the top.
Good day enjoy the Olympics lets hope some of them do more to uphold
the 'good name' of dinghy sailing.
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Posted By: Webmuppet
Date Posted: 11 Aug 08 at 12:02am
GRF, It does seem somewhat ironic that your words are regularly published in the mag yet you get banned from here !
I was genuinely interested in your progress with the Alto and I was quite to prepared to listen to to your 'words of wisdom' however I am not the moderator of this forum and whilst I haven't made a complaint about anything you've said on here, if others do, then it's up to the forum moderator to act on behalf of those offended. I would defend your right to say what you feel but if the forum is moderated then you must consider their parameters and attempt to stay within them. I hope that things can be resolved peacefully and that people will accept that sometimes a bit of provocation will actively promote some colorful and interesting debate,
Nigel
------------- I am the milkman of human kindness, I will leave an extra pint (Billy Bragg)
Graduate 2530 'Galaxy'
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Posted By: Pierre
Date Posted: 11 Aug 08 at 10:25am
GRF..... well said, good man.
Can't say anymore really. 
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Posted By: Merlinboy
Date Posted: 11 Aug 08 at 10:35am
It was like a ray of sunshine, breaking through my cloudy day seeing a GRF posting again then. Very very nice post old boy!!!
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Posted By: winging it
Date Posted: 11 Aug 08 at 10:55am
Yes, I agree. One of the few intelligent contributors in my opinion.
I shall be getting busy with the email and looking forward to my trip in the asbo.
   
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Posted By: Mark Jardine
Date Posted: 11 Aug 08 at 11:51am
Hi all
Just to make it clear as to why G.R.F. was banned from the forum; it was due to multiple complaints and continued breach of the forum rules and policies. We have a readership who might take offence far quicker than that of Sailing Anarchy or Boards.
Graeme is welcome back with his new profile if he can keep within the rules, avoid personal attacks and stop getting complained about so much.
I am left in the position where I have to respond to the majority and keep the tone of threads within the rules. Threads in banter can go where they want in my opinion.
I have to accept that some actions I take will upset some people but I do not feel that I should have to put up with personal attacks for taking those actions that my job compels me to do.
Mark
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Posted By: Merlinboy
Date Posted: 11 Aug 08 at 12:21pm
All of these complainers seem to be very quite in this thread! Most people seem to of been gutted the old rogue had been excluded!! Oh well, we understand you have a job to do Mark.
It all seems to of been sorted now!!
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Posted By: Contender 541
Date Posted: 11 Aug 08 at 1:13pm
Originally posted by Merlinboy
All of these complainers seem to be very quite in this thread!
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Do you not think it is more a case that the silent majority (who have sensibilities and do not appreciate repeated personal attacks) have decided to remain silent on this issue rather than respond to posts of "why did he get banned, I found him funny".
Personally (and I do mean personally), I found his latest musings to be full of venom, spite and vitriol. I dismissed it as the mutterings of someone trying to save as much face as possible and have left it there
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Posted By: Merlinboy
Date Posted: 11 Aug 08 at 1:43pm
To be honest i dont really care. I enjoy reading his posts about the ALto and hearing about his progress in dinghy sailing. Perhaps i'm thick skinned, or perhaps i'm part of the society that his jokes are aimed at instead of about. One thing i will say is that he is a great contributor to the forum, with some interesting views on the crossover between dinghy sailing and windsurfing. I dont know if anyone else had noticed the quality of the postings on the forum has dropped in the last year or so. It seems to be more about how fast this or that is, or how much sail area that has of late.
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Posted By: allanorton
Date Posted: 11 Aug 08 at 1:53pm
Originally posted by Contender 541
the silent majority (who have sensibilities nd do not appreciate repeated personal attacks) have decided to remain silent on this issue |
No-one has been "personally attacked", people who write on this forum live hundreds of miles apart, what you mean is, comments have been made which you don't agree with. THEY'RE JUST WORDS ON A SCREEN!!! Put it into perspective! I think GRF suffered more comments against him than anyone else on here, he just gave as good as he got. If you don't want to be the brunt of his comments don't rise to the bait, but if he you have ago back, don't start wingeing if he says something you don't like!
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Posted By: Alex C
Date Posted: 11 Aug 08 at 2:09pm
This thread is pathetic and frankly I’m embarrassed to contribute to such a mindless discussion. The rules are very clear, and I really can’t see any room for debate about what constitutes suitable content.
I would consider ending this thread before it fuels any more idiocy.
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Posted By: Merlinboy
Date Posted: 11 Aug 08 at 2:32pm
Well then don't contribute!! It may be pathetic but its one of the most popular threads we have had for a while!
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Posted By: a3xloser
Date Posted: 11 Aug 08 at 2:46pm
I change my mind.and i think i speak for the majority of people,silent as they are.
Get G,R,F banned he is one of those people who try to make trouble
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Posted By: Pierre
Date Posted: 11 Aug 08 at 4:35pm
Ssssssshhhhhh I'm listening to the silent majority.......
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Nope... not a sausage.
There must be psychics in our midst.
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Posted By: Pierre
Date Posted: 11 Aug 08 at 5:53pm
LOL... you too eh TT ? 
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